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Friday, 1 August 2014

BE A GREAT ORATOR! INSPIRE AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE

At some or the other instance in our life, we all come across a situation, where one has to deliver a discourse in a public or private meeting, or delivering PowerPoint Presentations during professional work or facing an interview or a scenario where one has to analyze business reports.

So, the question is how to skillfully master the art of speech? What lies in words, that inspire people? 

REFERENCE FRAME FROM WHICH A DISCOURSE HAS TO BE VIEWED:

When we are delivering a speech, we are actually speaking in a 3-Dimensional way.
1. From the audience perspective.
2. From the speaker's perspective.
3. From a view, to draw positive conclusions from the audience.

While speaking, make sure, that you are pleasing in appearance. Appearance really matters because, the tendency of attracting people comes from good appearance. For example, one can consider the former President of USA, John.F.Kennedy, was known for his charming looks although he is an astute politican.

The next note to be taken into consideration, is what we speak and how does it relates to our audience. The best to communicate people is to raise and interpret the common problems faced by people. For example, the queries and issues related to a student- Communication skills, Management skills etc.

The way of communication:
1. Pleasant smile makes people draws  attention towards you.
2. Have a firm eye-contact. Having a eye-contact with your audience or some other executive or your superior means that you are really interested in their problems and assure intangibly that you are the person to be relied upon. It boosts trust and confidence on the speaker, which in turn, is a best indication of a leader.
3. The next thing is, speak fluently. Fluency is English or any other language shows the command one has on language. What is the use of having a great idea without knowing the way to express it out? Also, when we do have command on something, we are actually enjoying working with it. So, it takes a bit of books, magazines and newspapers to read and develop efficiency in the language. That's the best way to provoke the orator in you.


Remember, we first crawled, then wobbled and then walked and started running. The same applies to any field of profession or in any part of life.
Because the experts now, are beginners long ago.


Please share your valuable suggestions to make ourselves grow better.

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Monday, 28 July 2014

Satisfaction

Festivals are the best part of life. They come and go, just like days and nights. Days are followed by heat while nights are filled with cool breezes and lovely moon and the wonderful stars.

One of my siblings was feeling sad that he could not have a brand new pair of threads, while rest of his friends had them. They had good enough money to enjoy this festive day. But, we had very little and still we were happy.

And on the other hand, me and my sibling were discussing regarding the rich and poor. We thought why did the almighty create vast differences in this world- the rich and the poor, the downtrodden and the respected, the good and the evil.

I was wondering what would have happened if there are no differences among people. But, after deep introspection its a miraculous realization that differences are made to make us unite. Differences are made to show that we are one despite of all differences. These differences tend to make us strong by mutual cooperation and respect for each other by a common understanding between two different parties.

We cry for not having shoes and on the other hand, a person physically disabled, who is unfortunately blessed with a single leg seems to be happy without any materialistic possessions.

Its not how much we have, its how satisfied we are with what we have.

These lines really helped my sibling restore his happiness. And my happiness was seeing him smile from the core of his heart.

Thank you

The inner world! Think about this.

True conscious lies inwardly, which is never touched by us. Man isn't just materialistic, but an infinite intangible possession. Our inward personality is never less than the vast universe. There you find the huge galaxies of consciousness which only you are capable of invoking.

Between sleep and wake, between blink of an eye and vision, between mind and thought, between heart and feelings, there lies the infinite power. The power which never is realized and released by us. 

Loneliness executes us all the time because we are so attached to the world and worldly possessions. But, the same loneliness helps you rediscover what you are both inwardly and outwardly......